Making Life's Journey One Strategic Step at a Time -
Making Life's Journey One Strategic Step at a Time -
The Strategic Chicken
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Wish to be You
The Best in Life is Free
The Best in Life is Free
We are taught that owning a home is the be-all and end-all, but the cost of real estate makes it seem unattainable and young people feel like failures, comparing themselves to generations before them. But what is failure? And what is success? We should never give up on our dreams, but patience, gratitude, and thankfulness help temper the journey. To read more: http://bit.ly/3ZaxhMp
Is a Mammogram Enough?
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When it comes to health, I’m big on prevention. I do everything I can to prevent a problem, or at least catch it in its earliest stages, so there isn’t too much to worry about. I keep up on all my cancer screenings, including my annual mammogram, and even upgraded to the 3D version. Every year, without fail, the report said there was no evidence of cancer—however for women with dense breast tissue, like me, it can be difficult to detect. This year, the report said something a little different and I paid attention to the radiologist’s recommendation. To read more visit https://bit.ly/3Ac307E
Celebrating America’s First Newspaper
The first newspaper in America was printed in Boston on September 25, 1690, and then suppressed by the British Colonial Authorities after the first edition, saying it contained “sundry, doubtful, and uncertain reports.” Newspapers were born to keep the people informed about the doings of government, but how could newspapers do their jobs with so much government oversight? The government has tried to control the media since the beginning of time, and sadly, it’s still trying. To read more
What Happened to Journalism?
When I was young, I remember my parents sitting down with a hot cup of coffee to enjoy the television news or the newspaper. In front of them were the facts about what was happening in our town, state, and nation, along with the rest of the world—all presented without bias so readers could make up their own minds. But that’s all changed. Gone are the times of Walter Cronkite, objectively reading the facts.
Life Without Horses?
When this little pillow was given to me, I was in the thick of it with horses. I wouldn’t trade those years for anything. Life was good. Tough day at work? Go home, tack up, and go for a relaxing jaunt in the woods. Nothing was more peaceful or fulfilling. But is it practical at this time in life to get another?
Should You Compromise?
News that my publisher had begun editing my second book, Because of Biz, sparked excitement. As I spread the word, some comments I heard revealed that a second book somehow made me seem more credible. Like I was a real author. The funny thing is that there wasn’t supposed to be a sequel. Biz’s Journey Home was supposed to be one book, but publishers prefer novels to be at or under 100,000 words and mine was 155,000. How much was I willing to compromise to get it published?
We Rarely Understand Another’s Journey
We didn’t think anyone outside of our house knew but, of course, they did. I knew the jig was up in high school when a friend was supposed to pick me up but never arrived. She said she left a message with my father, but I never received it. And then she said, “I think your father was drinking.” I guess it had been obvious, but our family dysfunction, though foreign to others, was our normal. To read more: https://bit.ly/44YLfUm
Are Your Happier Outdoors?
It’s a given that being in nature improves your state of mind, but did you know that it goes deeper than that? The physical labor involved when doing things like gardening releases endorphins,. And a bacteria within the soil, mycobacterium vaccae, gets absorbed through our hands and causes our brains to release serotonin—a natural antidepressant. LEARN MORE
Do You get Along With Mom?
Mother and daughter relationships can be tricky. Did you have a good relationship with your mother when you were young? How about as an adult? While talking with a good friend recently, she confided that when she sees social media posts such as, “Happy Heavenly Birthday, Mom. You were my best friend and I miss you every day,” it’s hard for her because she never had that kind of relationship with her mother. Neither did I, so posts like that leave me feeling a bit cheated.
Still Thankful and Grateful
Earlier this month, on social media, I posted about a horseback riding injury I sustained 17 years ago that changed my life. The injury was serious. I broke my back. But I don’t regard it as a bad thing because the downtime my mind and body needed to recover became a gift. An opportunity to evaluate my life and make changes. I hadn’t thought about that accident in years, but for some reason, this year, it wouldn’t leave my mind. Why was it on my mind now? Because trauma does that. You never really know when it will rear its ugly head and bite you in the butt.
Does Retirement Scare You?
When you think about retiring does it provoke anxiety or make you happy? What does it mean to you? Some see it as the ultimate reward for a lifetime of hard work. No more business obligations. No more bosses telling you what to do. No more asking permission for time off. No more feeling torn between work commitments and the needs of your family. Retirement feels like freedom. But the practical side of the brain might have a different opinion. No more paychecks. No more overtime. Will you be able to make it on a fixed income? Will there be enough for extras, like vacations? What if? What if? What if?
An Overdue Honor for Dad Just in Time for Christmas
In 1964, when I was just eight years old, my uncle Tim passed away. He was a carpenter and roofer, and an avid hunter, fisherman, and farmer. We spent many days at his farm, and I liked helping him so much that he made me a pint-sized green wooden wheelbarrow and spray-painted my name in cursive on the sides — in gold. How I loved his garden, which was where he would mostly be when our family arrived. Sometimes, he waited for me in the rhubarb patch with a bowl of sugar. With his knife, he’d cut off some stalks, and then we’d dip them in the sugar and eat while sitting in the sun, talking. I adored that man.
My Mission Made Me An Author
After nineteen years of writing and trying to get a book published, I can finally say that I’m a published author, but would you believe me if I told you my goal was never to become an author? The writing began because I felt a need to deliver a specific message to children and it all unfolded from there. It’s true that I’ve always been a writer at heart. Professionally, I was a journalist, but I also had a deep love of horses and a burning desire to help children understand that horses needed to be treated with kindness.
Do You Nurture Friendships?
Work is important but so are your friends. All work and no play isn’t healthy.
Don’t Wait to Tell People How You Feel About Them
Don’t wait to tell people how you feel about them
Is Money The Be-All and End-All?
When making a career move, happiness is just as important as money.
Today is Just as Important as the Future
Today is just as important as the future.
What Do You Want to Become?
When thinking about change, make a list of pros and cons.
The Easy Path Isn’t Always The Right Path
When choosing a direction, the easy path might not be the most rewarding.